I got drilled by these “we were not expecting it from your side, we thought that you are SIDHA (nice guy)” and “Oh my god you are saying this, I can’t believe that you can say such like. I have supposed ...You are SIDHA”….what the hell …could you tell me what is the definition of nice guy so called SIDHA. could you enlighten this term “SIDHA”. Many comments like that are scathing me again-again.
I sure..Some of you, have heard those lines. Yes...these are common punches on your face by others, who don’t know you clearly. Why, a person makes his intuitive view about other….boss take your time.
Let’s come to the topic of SIDHA :)..What is the meaning of that? Come and meet two different guy and then you decide! who is "SIDHA".
First one, who is very passionate to his work, very talented, very creative, rich, good looking, money minded, doesn’t care others for competition and for his promotion and can kick you at any time. He has no respect for others...Only self appraisal. No friends totally alienated and “apne hi raub m” (doesn’t listen to other only “I”).only “I, me and myself”.
Second one, who is not so much talented but has urge for doing something different. He takes involvement in many activities with friends and has respect for individuals, doesn’t use provocative language. He never hurts any one, he fights for his friend. he never breaks trust. He cracks joke but doesn’t comment and regret, if he did wrong and ready for help, some time he does mischievous things but not to harm someone.
Now you are thinking that why I am explaining all these rubbish things….sorry but reasons are
In our society we measure “SIDHAYI” (quality of SIDHA) with his dressing, college rank and money. Then neighbour will say, “he is very good guy” and yes one extra very important is, if you have no girlfriend then you are superb!!! But why don’t know. Search it yourself!!!
So please change your view. See the beauty of heart not external.
Ok…now just tell me. What kind of SIDHA you are??? :)
Dhiraj Mishra. :)
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